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The Sex Commercial
Sex is used in commercials a lot.
In this one. A husband becomes Mr. Mom and stays at home with the new baby, wakes up at all hours to feed the baby, and is exhausted. The wife comes and goes and is a flipped portrayal of when the man would come home tired from work and not help with the baby.
It makes sense that the person with the larger incomes is not the one to stay home.
In the commercial he is so tired he used a fulfillment center to order a coffee machine and then late an espresso machine, through that company, and this helps him succeed through his being tired.
In the beginning it shows her coming and going because of work.
The commercial is almost over, and the wife is sitting and relaxing with a cup of coffee, and they are laughing. perhaps that is on the weekend. Note: On her workdays it seemed she was leaving in a hurry.
Then the last scene is her giving him the look, as she then walks through the kitchen. It takes him a second, but then follows like a tired, but “ready” participant. Time for sex.
We feel sorry for this guy. Ok, remember how a man comes home from work and wants sex, but the wife feels tired and underappreciated? Flip that.
But this guy is a guy, and of course he will want sex because his “factory” never stops making those little fishes.
The wife wants it during that period of the month when her body is talking to her brain about getting pregnant.
So how long did this dutiful husband have to wait for sex?
One contact said that the wife had sex with him to show appreciation. We say no. because she had the look on her face of someone who was hot to trot. Just appreciation, would have meant “maintenance sex.” And thus, less of a horny expression if this were the case.
We do agree that she felt appreciation, but didn’t she feel appreciation every day in the video? So, not until her body started wanting it, not until then. Meaning, what is a guy to do?
Update:
February 21, 2025: We have a hypothesis that if you meet all the needs that satisfies the woman, is she less likely to “need” sex?
Why do young women give sex freely to men and then less in later years? One reason is because they are looking to “land” or capture a man’s attention and devotion. Honestly, sex will do that.
Our contact, the less he gets sex, the less he wants to do the other nice things for his wife. It needs to be a balance. Even filling out a Valentin’s Day card is a chore and feels like a lie. “How can I write lavish thoughts of love in this card for a person that has not had sex with me in two months?”
Note: If the roles were reversed what would the wife want when the husband gets home? A break? That he cares about her day too? To be treated as beautiful? To not be used as a sex tool because she won’t feel it.
Note: Sadly, it may be true that you need to marry someone that matches your sex drive but how do you know that if you are waiting for Cinderella and marriage? Our contact used prayer, and believed it was a promise from God that because He prayed for a sexual wife, he assumed he was being heard. Now he prays he does not go to hell for the longing of sex.
Trapped; image, by Geralt from Pixabay.
Trapped; image, by Geralt from Pixabay.