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The purpose of this page is to be more specific to sex as a curse. It is like money not actually being evil, but the love of it is.
So, sex is not evil in itself, and is and was meant for good. Imagine a married couple being best friends, partners, and more.
Now God wants us to treat our bodies like a temple of His Holy Spirit. This is where the curse comes in. Trash what is God’s and the opposite of good will happen.
The Bible is a guide to how to live, and in it are a lot of examples of the right and wrong way for many things, including sex.
We feel that the best gift of all is that the sex drive for a couple would be close to equal. We also know this is rare, so a workable compromise. This takes a really good communication system between the two. Can one love the other enough to see the need for certain frequency? The need to back off when she says, “Sorry that is starting to hurt.” The need to say that right thing when he is asking like he needs it, and you don’t want to.
But that is not actually the curse, but just a real part of being great sex partners. Apologies, one tangent we will have a hard time not taking, is the differences and how to co-exist.
So back to the curse of it. If both are in agreement, then ok. If not, but forced, then they call that perversion. Lord, help us.
Crossing that line seems easy. Lord, help us.
Pending – links, and more.