Infrequency Lessons Learned – Fallen Eruption

The Intimacy Timeline in a way, was a bust. It was way too hard to keep documenting all the details that encompass frequency or lack of frequency in sex. So, we instead offer some lessons learned.

Tools

Infrequency Coping Tools – Fallen Eruption

Keep Childhood Photos

This is only a coping mechanism.

Imagine Your infrequent Spouse is Mentally Challenged

This is only a coping mechanism. This is supposed to create sympathy and for you to think, “Wow they are actually doing good for being mentally deprived.” Tring not to use the word retarded and the word stupid. Other words work better. We know it is hard but be creative and find other words, like “challenged.”

DNA deprived is a good one. If a spouse is not like you in this way, then DNA is likely a reason; thus, not their fault. it may be more your fault for marrying them but when you are trying to wait for marriage you take it on faith that they will love you enough to somehow buy into the act of what is blessing you.

Masturbate a-lot

In theory this empties the sex factory (sperm) of the man, allowing his brain to recalibrate to normal. The problem is that it creates resentment. Plant the seed, that you want to “M” next to your spouse. Your spouse may feel guilty, but this is better than doing it alone.

Our contact was able to “M” five times in two days and then felt tired for two days. The goal was to see if he could “M” once per day and still perform anytime she would spring it on him. Conclusion, he was able to perform even though he had emptied the factory frequently, but it did affect how hard he could get. If she was willing to work with that, then eventually he would get harder. Conclusion: sex once per day would be possible, but friction is needed. Condoms take away the sensation. But protection is often needed if not after menopause, or unless the pill is being used.

Note: Some fear that birth control pills are dangerous for the heart and more.

Note: The spouse doing wonky things or saying untimely things during the act this will kill your attempt at having sex, now that she has suddenly sprung the idea on you, the fact that you have been draining it frequently will now work against you. The tank has to be full, so your body is wanting to have that release even if she says unromantic things during the act.

Note: Ignore if she says odd things during the act. Act like you heard her and then try to forget that she said it. If this persists then you will have to confess that you can’t perform.

Man 1 – Woman 15

Nope. Confirmed that one male orgasm happens and is not equal to a woman experiencing many of her own orgasms as pulses or sensations. Women say no to his. The idea was that if a woman has 15 orgasms of her own in a fifteen minute sex session with spouse, then the husband should not be sad if it only happens every 15 days. Hypothesis debuncted.