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Strategy Compilation – Fallen Eruption
Sleep Strategy
Hobby Strategy
Friends Strategy
Action Strategy
Stuff Strategy
Intimacy Meeting Strategy
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The Sleep Strategy
So, when she wakes you up to have sex, then that is ok, because she is offering you an opportunity, a gift. She knows you would not want to say no, even if you are resisting at first. No one can blame you for being groggy at first, even though she will tease you about it later.
But you waking her for this same reason? This will not be considered at all to be the same thing. Why? Husbands will generally lose this battle. Did we say, “Battle?” Why is it a battle?
“But I need my sleep for tomorrow” would be a common phrase and mix in some cringy complaining sounds. So, the man could say the same thing and be justified. But most men do not want to turn down the wife when she really wants it. opportunity, and you don’t say no to a gift.
Probably should talk to her ahead of time on this, and you likely will get a “No.”
Example: “I think I would like to wake you up for sex sometime this week. Is that ok?”
What if your force it and ask for forgiveness later? Have you seen the Matt Damon movie where the wife has him arrested for rape? For raping, her! So “No” means no.
So, men, say “No” next time your wife tries to pull this one on you. Yea, right.
We have a contact that says, or would say, that this is the man’s problem, and nothing sexually should be expected of the wife ever. It is up to the men to not be jerks about it. A man problem and not a wife’s problem.
Still, we would hope for a compromise with a healthy helping of love and understanding.
Our contact that is a wife says that things should be fair and equal but with the cavate (consideration or unspoken rule) of always deferring to what the wife says. Meaning, she is the architect of what happens to fulfill it. The man can make suggestions and then what happens next is up to the wife. In saying this she knows it sounds bad. This is our reality and yet it is unreal.
Our deprived husband contact says that rarely does sex happen without the wife critiquing/morphing it as it happens. Rarely does it feel like it just flows naturally. Now that wife would say, “Well don’t you want me to enjoy it?” Ouch.
Final Conclusion:
The strategy is to be grateful if she wakes you up for sex. Rely on other components of your sex life with her to make more sense. But this one, just be thanking God that this can happen. It does mean however that she is thinking way too much on other things in life, for it to have to be at 2 AM. After she may say that she is sorry to wake you but tomorrow she has a stressful day ahead of her so she knows it would not happen then. Ouch, but you can filter some good out of that. We know, it still means you are a prisoner.
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Bed; image, by Pexels – Pixabay.
Bed; image, by Pexels – Pixabay.